whatever she or anyone tells me isn’t the real issue.Their story is their
conscious interpretation of events. What’s really happening is out of
their awareness. But hearing the story is the starting place.”
“What did she say?”
“She told me her story and I listened. I just kept repeating ‘I love
you’ in my mind, to the Divine, trusting whatever needed to be
cleaned would be cleaned. At one point she told me her full name,
which was one of those hyphenated names.”
“Like Vitale-Oden or some such?”
“Exactly. I knew that was part of the problem. When someone
has a split name, it creates a split personality. She needed to own her
birth name.”
“Did you ask her to legally change her name?”
“She didn’t have to go that far,” he explained. “By telling herself
that her name was one word, she began to relax and feel whole again.”
“But was it the name change or your saying ‘I love you’ that
made the difference for her?”
“Who knows?”
“But I want to know,” I said.“I started a Miracles Coaching pro-
gram at http://www.miraclescoaching.com. I want to be sure my coaches
say and do the right thing so they truly help people.”
He went on to explain that therapists think they are here to help
people or save people. But in reality their job is to heal themselves of
the program they see in their patients. As those memories get can-
celed in the therapist, they get canceled in the patient.
“It doesn’t matter what you or your coaches say or do as long as
they keep loving the person they are with,” he explained again.
“Remember, the person you see is the mirror of you.What they ex-
perience is shared by you. Clean the shared program and you’ll both
get well.”
“But how?”
“I love you,” he said.
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