people and when you truly like someone and vice
versa, it can cause you both to hold back
information. Let me give you an example.
I knew a guy who met a woman and instantly he
was into everything about her. He really, really
wanted to see where things could go and shortly
after meeting her, he was already ready to take
things to the next level. As I mentioned in an earlier
chapter, it doesn’t take the average man long to
recognize the great potential in a woman as far as
whether she could be his future wife? A lot of times
women are conditioned to believe that it takes a
man a long time to figure it out, it really doesn’t.
Back to my example. He saw the potential in her
instantly, but he had two children by two different
women and because he really liked this woman, he
was afraid to tell her this information upfront. He
was genuinely afraid it would scare her off. He didn’t
want her to judge his situation without giving him a
fair chance and allowing them to see if they had a
mutual connection. So, he didn’t tell her. He
purposely kept that information out.
They continued getting to know each other and
there was a mutual connection. She was also really
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