he came clean. However, that’s your choice. I just
wanted to explain it because this is real life and it’s
reasoning behind why he sometimes lies or
withholds information.
Again, one of the best things you can do if your
desire is to eliminate or decrease the chances of
lying occurring, is to show you are open-minded to
things. An open mind doesn’t mean you’re going to
agree with everything. It doesn’t mean you’re going
to accept everything. It simply means you’re going
to be open to hearing him out and trying to see
where he’s coming from. You won’t immediately
jump down his throat or immediately jump to
judge him. You’ll keep your composure and
communicate with love and patience. You’ll show
him that he can feel comfortable opening up to you
and not have to worry about getting backlash from
you, when he does share his truth with you. Even if
it means eventually you decide not to move forward
with him.
Creating a trusting, open, honest, environment
within the dynamic of your interaction with a man
will decrease the lies he tells. However, ultimately
you don’t have control over him. If he decides to not
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