be truthful for any reason, that’s on him. It’ll be up
to him to learn how to mature and grow up.
He must learn to get past his insecurities and be
confident about who he is as a man and what he
brings to the table. He needs to be willing to be
unselfish and not be self-centered, only thinking
about himself in the moment. Instead, he needs to
be thinking about you and him and how his lie is
going to impact the relationship going forward. He
needs to man up.
In the end, you also need to make sure you’re
doing your part to create, encourage, and enhance an
open and honest environment. Of course, that
includes you being open and honest with him as well.
Ultimately people are going to lie if that’s what
they choose to do. I don’t say people to let men off
the hook. I say people to put things in perspective.
In many of the situations that I’ve seen, many of the
clients I’ve coached, women in general will often
take the lie very, very personal, internalizing it.
“Why did he have to lie to me? Why can’t he tell
me the truth?”
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