However, they don’t acknowledge the fact that
they’re not doing much to make their woman happy.
However, he’ll deflect in the moment to simply take
the spotlight off himself and not have to take any
responsibility for his part in the situation.
Pay attention to what happens when you try to
express yourself and feelings to him. If he’s
unwilling to embrace how you feel, it’s not a real
relationship.
On the other hand, I’ve seen scenarios where the
newly interested guy finally agrees to a relationship
with the woman, but it ends up being nothing more
than a consolation prize. He might think, “Well, I’m
ready to settle down now. She’s been here. Let me
go ahead and make her the one.”
You might be thinking, “Well, that’s not so bad.
At least I get what I want too and he’s finally
embracing what’s in front of him, me.”
Wrong. Whenever a guy settles on being with
you, when he figures he owes it to you or you’re just
the best option available at that moment, you’re
headed for a disastrous relationship. That’s not what
you want. That’s not what you need. Happiness and
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