will mean you won’t need to pull so much from
your relationship or require so much from your
man. Doing so causes friction and issues in the
relationship that can and should be avoided.
Be honest with yourself and him about what you
really need. It’s one thing to say, “I need to hear from
you daily.” It’s another thing to say, “We need to talk
on the phone for four hours every single day.” Do
you really need to be on the phone with him for
four hours a day just to feel like he’s into you? Is
that necessary? Many working adults won’t be able
to live up to those type of expectations. People are
juggling a lot in their lives daily. So, you’ll need to
look in the mirror and ask yourself are you being
reasonable with your requests. You’ll also need to
figure out where your needs are coming from. Are
they from a healthy or unhealthy place and adjust
them accordingly.
Understand that it’s not someone else’s
responsibility to entertain you all day because you
don’t have anything else better to do. It’s not fair to
them. A desire to get to know someone is healthy.
Looking for someone to occupy your time because
you don’t have much else going on, is not. If you
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