or figure you out. He wants to be successful if he’s
pursuing a relationship with you. He also wants to
know that giving you his time is a good use of it and
that you won’t waste it or abuse it. It’s unfair to him
if you aren’t giving him any direction to begin with.
Remember that communication is a big piece of
the successful relationship puzzle. Always be willing
to talk about things upfront, from the beginning.
Always be willing to let him know how you feel.
This will keep the confusion, misunderstandings,
and arguments to a minimum.
Even though Michael didn’t know how to
proceed at the time in moving forward with Alicia,
he did what she requested and reached out once he
figured out and practiced making time for the
relationship. He realized after they stopped
communicating that she was important to him and
he too wanted to see if they could progress into
something serious.
The second time around, Michael was more
attentive to Alicia. He initiated more of their
telephone and text communication. He also made
sure she felt his desire and interest in her. He was
vocal about his feelings and he did his best to back
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