Too many times, women want the man to figure
it out. When it comes to a busy man, who’s already
pressed for time, figuring it out complicates what
could be simple. Tell him and he can do it or decide
it’s something he’s not willing to do. Taking this
approach saves both of you from headaches and
wasted time. Once a man has clarity on what is
required of him and what your needs and desires are
in the relationship or in the building of a
relationship, when he’s into you, he has no problems
making it happen. However, many times women
aren’t clear about what they want and need.
Please don’t come to me with the argument,
“Why do I have to tell him, he should know. It
should be common sense.”
Listen, common sense isn’t always common. The
reality is that you don’t know what he’s been
exposed to before you. Don’t make assumptions
about him automatically knowing what you as a
woman will like or need. Relationships aren’t one
size fits all. Sharing what you like and what you
don’t, helps him make you happy. It helps him get
to know you. It helps him feel more secure about
doing things for you because he doesn’t have to guess
42 HE’S LYING SIS