Entertaining a married man who is separated and
currently waiting for that divorce to be finalized,
means you’re playing with fire. Like majority of
women who’ve been in this situation before you,
you’ll end up getting burned.
If he’s serious about getting his divorce, then he
needs to get his divorce. Now, I don’t want you to
think I’m promoting divorce. I don’t want you to
think I encourage divorce. Not at all. However, if a
couple is already at that stage and it’s going to
happen, let it happen first before you start
entertaining him. Let him do what he needs to do.
Let him close out that chapter in his life before he
tries to begin a new one with you.
I’ve seen situations where there was a genuine
connection between the separated man and the new
woman because let’s be honest here, everyone doesn’t
marry the right person the first time around. Some
people will marry a person they have no connection
with at all and then wonder why the marriage didn’t
work out. It’s very possible that as the other woman
you could have real feelings for him. The connection
between the two of you could be electric and it could
honestly turn into something amazing one day.
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