Let’s explore the possibility that the man in this
situation could also be lying.
Again, every guy who is separated is not lying
about everything. However, I must be real here.
Being the third party and the one in the dark often,
is too risky of a situation to put yourself in. You are
at the mercy of the situation and you are left in this
grey area not knowing what’s really coming.
Let me give you another example. Meet Tonya,
also a well-intentioned other woman. Tonya was
dating a married man who was separated and who
claimed he was getting a divorce. To my knowledge
the guy was dating a couple women while still
married. However, Tonya thought she was number
one on the totem pole and that everything would go
her way. She even went as far as to allow herself to
get pregnant by this man. I’m using the word ‘allow’
intentionally here because she knew exactly what
she was doing. It was her plan all along and she
thought she’d won the lottery because she was going
to have this guy’s baby. Somehow, she figured her
pregnancy solidified her spot. She thought that once
he left his wife, he would be with her and her alone
to raise their child together.
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