Assuming that he has not been trying to contact you, and you’ve
had no contact whatsoever, what do you think he'll be feeling
when he sees a text message from you? Excitement, nervousness,
curiosity? How about fear? Well, If there was a lot of drama during
the breakup, he may be feeling a bit of fear of that drama star ng
up again. So, when you do make contact with him, you want to
keep things light, fun and drama-free. And don’t bring up the
rela onship or the breakup. Don’t talk about how much you miss
him, or that you want to get back together, or that you’re
miserable that he’s not in your life.
Instead, you’re going to send him a brief but meaningful text
where you share a fond memory of you that you experienced
together. Or tell him you just ate a restaurant that he introduced
you to. Text him something light or even a funny memory you
shared. Bring him back to the posi ve mes you had and let him
reminisce about the great person you are. Hopefully your ex will
be recep ve and engaging with your texts. Take things slowly here.
You don’t want your ex to start thinking that you are chasing them.
This is why you must have an equal rela onship with them. You
want them to contact you as much as you contact them. You want
them to try to meet up as much as you are trying to meet up.
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