excess  of,  32
confidence,  23 ,    34 ,    39 .   See also    self-confidence
consequences,    27 ,    34
allowing    teaching    by,  94 ,   98–99,   107 ,   199
appropriate,     105 ,  148–49
avoiding/escaping,   53 ,    54 ,   67–68,   100 ,   101
of  behavior,   67–68,   152 ,   172
choices about,   219
damaging,    26
delayed,    60–61,   95 ,   104–6,  132–33
experiencing,    29 ,    89 ,    96 ,    167 ,   195
imposing,    103 ,   185
living  with,    13 ,    42 ,    85
meaningful,  61 ,    77
monetary,    101 ,   104 ,   161 ,   180 ,   215
natural,     31 ,   100–102.    See also    significant learning    opportunities
by  non-parents,     107 ,   190
parents’    comfort with,    23
real-world,  100
source  of,  57
teaching    by,  26 ,    27 ,    36 ,    55
thinking    about,   75 ,    105 ,   106 ,   221
as  threats,     113
tough,   62
consultant  parents,     27 ,   59–60,   257
vocabulary  of,  59 ,    94
control,     25 ,    37 ,    79 ,    235
ability to,  26 ,   46–44,   99
of  actions,     27
of  behavior,    63
by  child,   57 ,   81–83,  89–90
difficulty  in,  91
external,    195 ,   197 ,   248
                    
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