life, view of, 13
limits, 57–59
choices within, 27 , 30 , 57 , 76 , 80 , 81–83
enforceable, 27 , 248
enforcing, 27 , 167
failure to set, 166
resisting, 74
security from, 66–68, 76–77
testing, 76–77, 87 , 185
during toddlerhood, 65–66
limits, setting, 66 , 69 , 71 , 74 , 76
by child, 248
choices in, 77
listening, 115 , 201 , 205 , 220
by child, 249
loans, 31
logic, 13
love, 13 , 26 , 116
assurance of, 186
as behavior motivator, 92
expressing, 23 , 39–40, 108 , 147 , 228
of God, 91
God’s, 29 , 219
selfish, 62
unconditional, 39–40, 48 , 60 , 106 , 186
“V” of, 81–83
wrong kind of, 23
Love and Logic system, 13–14, 20
discomfort with techniques of, 28
effectiveness of, 56 , 111
explaining, 189
implementing, 109–10
misapplication of, 111 , 115
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