loved one than you are?
- Do you think that the drinker's behavior is caused Yes No
by his or her companions?
- Are mealtimes frequently delayed because of the Yes No
drinker?
- Do you make threats, such as, "If you don't stop Yes No
drinking I'll leave you"?
- When you kiss the drinker hello, do you secretly Yes No
try to smell his or her breath?
- Are you afraid to upset someone for fear it will set Yes No
off a drinking bout?
- Have you been hurt or embarrassed by a drinker's Yes No
behavior?
- Does it seem as if every holiday is spoiled because Yes No
of drinking?
- Have you considered calling the police because of Yes No
drinking behavior?
- Do you find yourself searching for hidden liquor? Yes No
- Do you feel that if the drinker loved you, he or she Yes No
would stop drinking to please you?
- Have you refused social invitations out of fear or Yes No
anxiety?
page_198Page 199- Do you sometimes feel guilty when you think of the Yes No
lengths you have gone to to control the drinker?
- Do you think that if the drinker stopped drinking, Yes No
your other problems would be solved?
- Do you ever threaten to hurt yourself to scare the Yes No
drinker into saying, "I'm sorry" or "I love you'?
- Do you ever treat people (children, employees, Yes No
parents, co-workers, etc.) unjustly because you are