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3. Robert Subby and John Friel, "Co-Dependency: A Paradoxical Dependency," in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue,


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5. Al-Anon Family Group, Al-Anon Faces Alcoholism (New York: Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, 1977).


6. Al-Anon protects the anonymity of its members and keeps no official record of membership data. However, the
   Minneapolis Intergroup office agreed this figure was probably accurate.


7. Terence T. Gorski and Merlene Miller, "Co-Alcoholic Relapse: Family Factors and Warning Signs," in Co-
   Dependency, An Emerging Issue, 78.

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7. Earnie Larsen; Subby, "Inside the Chemically Dependent Marriage."


8. Subby and Friel, "Co-Dependency."


9. Charles L Whitfield, "Co-Dependency: An Emerging Problem Among Professionals," in Co-Dependency, An
   Emerging Issue, 53; Joseph L Kellermann, The Family and Alcoholism: A Move from Pathology to Process (Center City,
   MN: Hazelden Educational Materials, 1984).


10. Wayne W. Dyer, Your Erroneous Zones (New York: Funk and Wagnalls, 1976); Theodore I. Rubin with Eleanor
    Rubin, Compassion and Self-Hate: An Alternative to Despair (New York: David McKay Company, 1975).

Chapter 4

1. Nathaniel Branden, Honoring the Self: Personal Integrity and the Heroic Potentials of Human Nature (Boston:
   Houghton Mifflin Company, 1983), 162.


2. Dennis Wholey, The Courage to Change (Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company, 1984), 207.


3. Judi Hollis, Fat Is a Family Affair (San Francisco: Harper/Hazelden, 1986), 55.


4. Ibid., 53.


5. Robert Subby and John Friel, "Co-Dependency: A Paradoxical Dependency," in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue
   (Hollywood, FL: Health Communications, 1984), 32.

Chapter 5

1. This quote is excerpted from a handout entitled "Detachment," which contains a collection of writings by anonymous
   Al-Anon members.


2. Wayne W. Dyer, Your Erroneous Zones (New York: Funk and Wagnalls, 1976), 89.


3. Al-Anon Family Group, One Day at a Time in Al-Anon (New York: Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., 1976).


4. Judi Hollis, Fat Is a Family Affair (San Francisco: Harper/Hazelden, 1986), 47.


5. Terence Williams, Free to Care: Therapy for the Whole Family (Center City, MN: Hazelden Educational Materials,
   1975).


6. Hollis, at Is a Family Affair.

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7. Carolyn W, Detaching with Love (Center City, MN: Hazelden Educational Materials, 1984), 5.