Sensory (continued)
experiences, 121
modality, 6
pleasures, 122, 123
Separation, 9, 32, 213, 248
Sherlock Holmes, 10
Sibling conflict, 256
Sibling rivalry, 70, 167, 234
Skills, 7, 40, 47, 52, 75, 77, 79, 91, 107, 136,
168, 184, 187, 193, 231, 235, 263, 268,
269, 270, 274
acquisition of, 204
behavior management, 266–267
behavioral, 194
decision making, 270
discriminatory, 34, 240
in decision making, 221
metaphors for building problem-solving,
173
metaphors for developing life, 155–172
new, 195
pain management, 194, 195
parenting, 266–267
practicing, 212
preventive, 249
problem-solving, 10, 32, 38, 40, 248, 270
self-initiated management, 194, 195
to change, 230
using, 212
Snow White, 13
Social:
acceptance, 216
interactions, 246
skills, 110, 118, 126
Solution-focus(ed), 89, 256
questions, 189
strategy, 237
Solutions, 49, 55, 88, 97, 103, 104, 129, 132,
147, 167, 173, 179, 201
alternative, 55
win-win, 108
Steer, R., 241
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Steiner, T., 43, 232, 249, 256, 257
Stewart, B., 241
Stop, 264, 271
Story(ies), xvii, xix, xx, 3, 12, 13, 16, 17, 131,
236, 240, 242, 252, 253, 262, 263, 268,
269, 270
a kid story, 47, 62, 82, 103, 122, 141, 156,
174, 194
a teen story, 49, 64, 84, 104, 123, 157, 175,
195
a young kid story, 139
align effect, 29
animal, 19
avoid magic-outcome, 234–235
avoid negative-outcome, 236
avoid reading, 237
children’s 246, 247
advantages of using, 247
metaphors built on, 247–249
classic value, 8, 31
client-generated, 247
find the outcome, 260–271
for parenting, 266–267
for parents, 266–267
goal-oriented, 258
healing, xviii, xix, 8, 9, 14, 24, 30, 211,
229, 243, 245, 247, 249, 252, 259, 262,
275
books as a source of, 30–32
drama as a source of, 32–33
videos or DVDs as a source of, 33–35
why tell, 3–4
hero, 19
how they:
build experience, 9–10
change, 11–13
discipline, 8–9
educate, 6–7
facilitate problem solving, 10–11
heal, 11–13
inform, 5–6
teach values, 7–8