What She Can Do
The wayofsolvingthisproblem isto understanditcompassionately from both sides. He needsto be
appreciated,whilesheneedstofeelsupported.Otherwisetheirsicknessgetsworse.
Thesolutiontothisresentmentisforhertotakeresponsibility.
Sheneedstotakeresponsibilityforhavingcontributedtoherproblembygivingmoreandlettingthescore
getsouneven.Sheneedstotreatherselfasifshehasthefluoracoldandtakearestfromgivingso
muchintherelationship.Sheneedstopamperherselfandallowherpartnertotakecareofhermore.
Whenawomanfeelsresentful,sheusuallywillnotgiveherpartnerachancetobesupportive,or,ifhe
tries,shewillnegatethevalueofwhathehasdoneandgivehimanotherzero.Sheclosesthedoortohis
support.By takingresponsibilityforgivingtoomuch,shecangiveupblaminghimfortheproblemand
startanewscorecard.Shecangivehimanotherchanceand, withhernewunderstanding,improvethe
situation.
What He Can Do
Whenamanfeelsunappreciated,hestopsgivingsupport.Awayhecanresponsiblydealwiththesituation
istounderstandthatitishardforhertogivepointsforhissupportandappreciatehimwhensheissick
withresentment.
Hecanreleasehisownresentmentbyunderstandingthatsheneedstoreceiveforawhilebeforeshecan
giveagain.Hecanrememberthisasheattentivelygiveshisloveandaffectioninlittleways.Forawhilehe
shouldnotexpecthertobeasappreciativeashedeservesandneeds.Ithelpsifhetakesresponsibilityfor
givinghertheflubecauseheneglectedtodothelittlethingsthatsheneeds.
Withthisforesighthecangivewithoutexpectingmuchinreturnuntilsherecoversfromherflu.Knowing
thathecansolvethisproblemwillhelphimreleasehisresentmentaswell.Ifhecontinuesgivingandshe
focusesontakingarestfromgivingandfocusesonreceivinghissupportwithlove,thebalancecanbe
quicklyrestored.
WHYMENGIVELESS..................................................................................................................
Amanrarely intendstotakemoreandgiveless. Yetmenarenotoriousforgivinglessinrelationships.
Probably you haveexperienced this in yourrelationships. Women commonly complain thattheir male
partnerstartsoutmorelovingandthengraduallybecomespassive.Menalsofeelunfairlytreated.Inthe
beginningwomenaresoappreciativeand loving,andthentheybecomeresentfulanddemanding.This