isalwaysimportantthatyoucontinuetoaskcorrectlyforthelittlethingsaswellasgraciouslyaccepthis
rejections.
WHYMENARESOSENSITIVE......................................................................................................
Youmaybeaskingyourselfwhymenaresosensitiveaboutbeingaskedforsupport.Itisnotbecausemen
arelazybutbecausemenhavesomuchneedtofeelaccepted.Anyrequesttobemoreortogivemore
mightinsteadgivethemessagethatheisnotacceptedjustthewayheis.
Justas awomanismoresensitiveaboutbeing heardandfeeling understoodwhen sheis sharingher
feelings,amanismoresensitiveaboutbeingacceptedjustthewayheis.Anyattempttoimprovehim
makeshimfeelasthoughyouaretryingtochangehimbecauseheisnotgoodenough.
OnMars,themottois"Don'tfixitunlessitisbroken."Whenamanfeelsawomanwantingmore,andthat
sheistryingtochangehim,hereceivesthemessagethatshefeelsheisbroken;naturallyhedoesn'tfeel
lovedjustthewayheis.
Bylearningtheartofaskingforsupport,yourrelationshipswillgraduallybecomegreatlyenriched.Asyou
areabletoreceivemoreoftheloveandsupportyouneed,yourpartnerwillalsonaturallybequitehappy.
Menarehappiestwhentheyfeeltheyhavesucceededinfulfillingthepeopletheycareabout.Bylearning
toaskcorrectlyforsupportyounotonlyhelpyourmanfeelmorelovedbutalsoensureyou'llgetthelove
youneedanddeserve.
Inthenextchapterwewillexplorethesecretofkeepingthemagicoflovealive.