5 ."Idon'twanttodealwiththisagain."
6 ."Thisiscrazy!Wearehavingthesameargument."
7 .”Whydoyouhavesomanyproblems?"
Whenawomangoesintoherwellherdeepestissuestendtosurface.Theseissuesmayhavetodowith
therelationship,butusuallytheyareheavilychargedfromherpastrelationshipsandchildhood.Whatever
remainstobehealedorresolvedfromherpastinevitablywillcomeup.Herearesomeofthecommon
feelingsshemayexperienceasshegoesintothewell.
WARNINGSIGNSFORMENTHATSHEMAYBEGOINGINTOHERWELLORWHENSHENEEDSHISLOVE
THEMOST
Shefeels Shemaysay
Overwhelmed "Thereissomuchtodo."
Insecure "Ineedmore."
Resentful "Idoeverything."
Worried “Butwhatabout"
Confused "Idon'tunderstandwhy"
Exhausted "Ican'tdoanythingmore."
Hopeless "Idon'tknowwhattodo."
Passive "Idon'tcare,dowhatyouwant."
Demanding "Youshould"
Withholding "No,Idon'twantto"
Mistrustful "Whatdoyoumeanbythat?"
Controlling "Well,didyou?"
Disapproving "Howcouldyouforget?"
Asshefeelsmoreandmoresupportedatthesedifficulttimes,shebeginstotrusttherelationshipandis
abletojourneyinandoutofherwellwithoutconflictinherrelationshiporstruggleinherlife.Thisisthe
blessingofalovingrelationship.
Tosupportawomanwhensheisinherwellisaspecialgiftthatshewillgreatlyappreciate.Graduallyshe
willbecomefreefromthegrippinginfluenceofherpast.Shewillstillhaveherupsanddowns,buttheywill
notbesoextremethattheyovershadowherlovingnature.