Coaching, Mentoring and Managing: A Coach Guidebook

(Steven Felgate) #1

The Coaching Role: Inspiring and Motivating


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  1. Allow the contest to continue. Don’t tell team
    members at all. If anyone finds out, tell the truth: You
    didn’t want to disappoint them.

  2. Halt the contest. Announce the part discontinuance.
    Tally the results of the contest so far and declare a
    winner based on output to date.
    Example Analysis
    At this point, you may be saying, “Hey, what difference
    does it make? It wasn’t Mike’s fault. This can’t be a big
    deal one way or the other.” Can’t it? Think about it.
    In this instance, team morale is definitely at stake. Nearly
    two months of work would be for nothing. Additionally, if
    competition is very close, calling the contest one day early
    could penalize a team that believes it has a full day to
    “catch up.” What might the effect be for other contests?
    Further, the unfortunate fact is that the bearer of bad news
    is often seen in a negative light. Some might question if
    Mike knew all along. Blameless or not, Mike is not going
    to be greeted with smiles at his announcement. In fact, for
    the next several months he could be hearing “are you
    sure?” every time he assigns a new production schedule.
    There’s no way around it. The critical issue here is
    honesty, as it is in any situation where you have a truth
    that affects the team. Can your team count on you to “bite
    the bullet” and level with them at all costs? Or are they
    going to always wonder if you are withholding some
    information on every project in order to spare their
    feelings? Taking an “easy way out” never works for
    a coach.
    Tell your people the truth, even if it hurts. They will learn
    they can depend on you to shoot straight with them — and
    they will reciprocate. Honesty is part of honoring
    and respect.



  • Encouraging communication freedom
    You’ve heard the expression, “My door is always open,”
    yet the reality often is open door, closed mind. Regardless,
    your team should be absolutely convinced that it is the


Tell your people
the truth, even if
it hurts.
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