impatient, she’ll become uncomfortable and you will fail. If you’re too
hesitant she’ll start to lose the spark of attraction, and begin to see you as
a friend.
What this means is – when you’re in a position where you feel like
you should take a bold romantic step forward, you’re better off taking the
risk and going for it rather than hesitating. At least she’ll know your
intentions, and let you know how she feels about you, and you won’t be
stuck orbiting her in an endless cycle of stress, confusion, and desire,
wondering if she’s into you or not.
Once you're in the friend zone, any move or declaration of love
won’t likely make a difference. That's mostly how you find out you're in
the friend zone in the first place.
Getting out of the Friend ZoneGetting out of the friend zone requires you to disappear and come
back a new man.
The picture she painted of you and your identity that she decided
would make a better friend than lover is stuck. Fortunately, we aren’t
stuck with it.
The best way to get out of friend zone, is to disappear from her life
for a while and spend the time working on yourself.
Then come back – new look, new style, new attitude, and a lot more
practice. The goal is to be noticeably better than before. Suddenly, you
become a slightly mysterious stranger that she used to know so well.
Why does this work?
Because you need time to change and improve, you need time to let
the guy who became a friend fade in her mind a little, so that eventually
you can return with a stronger version of your authentic identity.