have when it comes to texting. You might not be experiencing all of
these, but we'd be amazed if you weren’t dealing with at least some of
them.
You Don't Know when to text
We believe there's a very simple solution to this: It all comes
down to what happens in person, because that where attraction and
romantic connection happens. Imagine, your celebrity crush gave you her
number and started texting you all the time, or she invited you out on a
date but rarely returned your texts. In either case, would you still want to
date them? I’m betting it’s very likely you would.
Same thing goes for women; if the guy is interesting enough they’ll go
out of their way to hang out with you. Do you think she’d go out of her
way to hang out with her celebrity crush? Do you think that if he texted
too much, or barely texted at all, that she’d no longer want to hang out
with him? I doubt it.
Refine your in-person skills and the texting will become less and less
of a problem.
You Don't Know How to Set Up a Date
The point of texting isn't more texting – it's getting her off the phone
and into your presence, preferably on a date that she won't soon forget.
Unfortunately, a lot of guys focus too much on their "text game" that
they never make the transition from texting to up close and in person.
Remember to keep your eyes on the prize. The prize is not another
text from her – it's a date that's going to bring the two of you closer than
texting ever will. Flirt with her, but avoid chit chatting and always be
thinking about how you're moving toward the date.