money, you're just window-shopping. Similarly, if you don't have
enough social value, you're not going to get her number, your dates will
flake, and your seduction will fail.
That said, here are the three steps you'll need to use to actively build
social value:
Key #1: Knowledge Based Social Value (Generating Social Value
with What You Know)
In movies the "player” is generally portrayed as a guy with a
gimmick. He has some trick or game that he uses to charm and seduce
the women he meets. While tricks and gimmicks won’t get you love,
they will help you add value in a seduction. They’re a piece of the
puzzle. If you want to become the most interesting guy in the room, you
should memorize a few routines – magic tricks, bar cons, psychology
games, or cold reads – to have on hand to liven up the atmosphere. The
more entertaining routines you know and can perform, the more
interesting and fun you'll be. The knowledge based games and routines
are by no means the only way you build social value, but they can come
in handy with the right timing.
Key #2: Wisdom-based Social Value (Generating Social Value
with Your Life Story)
This is going to be the cornerstone of your social value building.
Wisdom-based value building is all about your perspective of the world.
Wait a minute, you might think. My life has not been that exciting. What
if I don’t have any stories that can impress a group of people?
Don’t worry; you don’t need to be well traveled, have a crazy
adventurous life or a high paying job. Don’t get me wrong – that
definitely helps, but it’s not necessary. Generating value with your life
story is about sharing your perspective of reality; not bragging. It's about