When a woman graciously receives his support without
feeling obligated to give in return, it uplifts her as well. Ro-
mantic rituals are there to make her feel special and remind
her to receive and not give so much. In this process, he gets
the opportunity once again to taste the nectar of being selfless
and giving unconditionally.
Romantic rituals are there to make
a woman feel special and remind her
to receive and not give so much.When men are stressed, they can forget their purpose. They
can work so hard that they forget that they are doing it to
provide for the people they love and care about. They start
caring more about work than the opportunity to be in a caring
relationship. By taking time to be romantic, a man gets an op-
portunity to experience and remember why he is doing it all.
When he feels a woman’s love, he remembers, “Oh, this is why
I do it.” Her receptivity to his support allows him to feel more
committed to his purpose.
For a man to stay on purpose in his relationships, he needs
to remember why he is having a relationship anyway. The
purpose of having relationships has changed. We no longer
need each other to survive. Relationships that are based on
survival do not survive anymore. Both men and women want
something more than the security of a partner working for the
good of the family. We may want that as well, but today we
want even more. We want emotional fulfillment. We want ro-
mance. We want intimacy. And we want to find a deep and
lasting love.
Relationships that are based on survival
do not survive anymore.WOMEN LOVE A MAN WITH A PLAN / 299