son who has what we need. Sometimes it is when we are
down and out, when we really need help, that God’s angels
bring us a miracle.
- Meet your soul mate through placing or answering a singles
ad. When writing your ad, remember to express your most
positive self and clearly maintain the appropriate role. A
woman’s role should be similar to that of a shopper or the
role of someone offering a job. She should not say anything
to win a man’s interest; instead, she writes what she wants
in a man and what she enjoys most. A man, however, needs
to maintain the role of applying for the job. He needs to talk
about himself in glowing terms and describe what he has to
offer and is hoping to offer. In short, a man describes what
he has to give and a woman describes what she would like
to receive.
- Dating services are a great way to meet the right person
for you. They make it so much easier to get to know a person
before actually meeting. It is similar to having a friend intro-
duce you to someone. You get to feel as if you know some-
thing about a person before you meet. If you would never
consider a dating service, then your soul mate probably
would.
- If you have finished going to school, try continuing your
education. Take classes in things that you have never stud-
ied, particularly when they involve labs, projects, or discus-
sions.
- Join a chorus and sing—particularly if you don’t like to
sing, you can’t sing, or you are too serious. Singing
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