- A man is also seeing other women, but when he is with her
he says she is the most special. If a man is seeing other wo-
men, then she is just fooling herself. There is no such thing
as being the most special woman if he is dating other women.
It means that she clearly isn’t the most special even if he says
she is. - She sees a man’s potential and feels that with her help he
could be great. When a woman takes credit for a man’s
success, it is very likely that he will leave her one day to find
a woman that he can take credit for making happy. - A man has a destructive habit and she feels she can help
him. This chemistry occurs because a woman with low self-
esteem feels better about herself when she feels that her
problems are not her fault. By having someone to blame for
her problems, she can hide from the truth that she is respons-
ible for her life. - She feels sexually attracted to a man right away. This is a
sign that she is reacting to her expectation of who this man
is, not the man himself. Before acting on this chemistry, she
needs to make sure they have moved through the first three
stages. - She feels eager to accommodate and please a man. This is
clearly a sign that she feels a man can give her what she
needs, but she has not yet gotten what she needs. She should
be careful to hold back until she actually gets what she needs. - She feels strong chemistry but clearly feels a man will have
to make changes before she will get what she needs.
368 / JOHN GRAY, PH.D.