interesting communication and actions. It‘s the magic spice that makes the
whole dish work.
But beware the dark side...
CONSTANT AND EXTREME unpredictability in itself becomes predictable—
and annoying! You don‘t have to make it so that they are constantly in fear of
what craziness will come next, but you also don‘t want her to ever be 100%
sure of what you‘re going to do next.
I‘ve had several women say to me ―I never know what you‘re going to do
next‖. That tells me that they WANT to know... which means they‘re thinking
about me. Good thing.
Playing Hard to Get
Playing hard to get is a classic pattern of behavior that works for a number
of reasons. Like being Cocky & Funny, it‘s a way of saying that you value
yourself at least as much as you value her.
Some men don‘t like the idea of ―playing hard to get‖ because it seems
manipulative. It seems insincere. It seems like a game.
Well guess what? Women WANT YOU TO BE INTERESTING. Women want a
challenge. It‘s fun for them.
Beautiful women are used to men accepting any sign of interest from
them. If you have the balls to hesitate on returning such a sign, you send a
powerful message about how self-confident you are and how little you need.
Being ―hard to get‖ automatically implies scarcity, so it also increases the
rarity factor enhancing your attraction.
Some guys have trouble playing hard to get because they don‘t even have
her attention in the first place. All it takes is a little push though. You can start
with anything, so it really doesn‘t matter what you say. The key is in holding
back a detail at the first opportunity, whether it‘s your age, profession, or
name.
If a woman is relating to you through a puzzle or mystery, she‘s hooked.
You have reversed the roles, taken the power and now she is the one
wanting something you have.
Once you‘ve primed the pump and caused one splash of interest, it‘s all
over for her. You can take a tiny spark of interest from her, play hard to get,
and use it to build that small attention into a big attraction.