Automatically withdrawing from an accidental touch, instead of proving
you‘re okay with it by prolonging it for a moment, screams of insecurity. She‘ll
see your shyness as nervousness about yourself.
Unfortunately for you, she won't do anything about it. She might pity you,
but she‘ll let this familiar scene play out and just let you sit there squirming
while the chance of anything romantic or sexual disappears.
Being Focused on your Goals is Attractive
Leaders need a direction to pursue. All the great men in history have had
massive beliefs that motivated amazing feats. Think of the passion behind Mel
Gibson characters, Virgin Records and Airline billionaire Richard Branson, and
Hugh Hefner.
Knowing what you want and actually making an effort to get it is very
strong and sexy to women.
Making genuine effort towards your goals demonstrate that you‘re a cause
and a power in life, which is unlike submissive wussboys. Trying not to move
forward or just following others reeks of unattractiveness.
You don‘t have to accomplish anything ―huge‖ or ―great,‖ but find
something to pursue about which you do care. The key to genuine motivation
is to find what‘s meaningful to you regardless of others, whether it‘s your
devoting time to your career, enjoying the great outdoors, dancing, art, or
volunteering.
Don‘t worry about other people‘s judgment. When you get somewhere with
something you care about, you‘ll have the last laugh.
Having a goal and being focused on achieving it will make you FAR more
attractive to women.
Find your path, get on it, and stay on it.
Do but Don‘t Care
While it‘s attractive to have passion in your life, getting too emotional too
early about a woman or sex can backfire. Being obsessive or overly romantic
can lead to being taken for granted as a needy wuss.
The attractive male type acts that way for the fun of it, not because he has
a need to attract women. The power of simply enjoying women‘s reactions to
your Cocky and Funny lets you keep your cool whatever response they give.