me, I want to please you and I‘ve found a way to connect my true-self to
something that you like.‖
Don‘t Misuse Romance
I think that most guys use romance in completely the wrong way and in
the process screw up their chances with the woman they are interested in.
So I'm going to take some time here to talk about how romance is
misused, and how to use it to really make a woman feel attracted to you.
Most guys make one of two main mistakes when trying to be "romantic":
They try to use romance to CREATE attraction.
They do too much, thinking that more must be better.
Let me ask you this... What does romance mean to you?
Does romance mean gifts and flower? Does it mean fancy dinners? Does it
mean candles and soft music?
To me, romance is about showing a softer side of yourself in a way that
increases a woman's attraction for you. Like I just mentioned, most guys
either try to use romance to create attraction, or they do too many things and
the effect is lost.
Here's a quiz:
In general, would a woman think you were more romantic if you: 1)
Brought her red roses every time you saw her, or 2) Brought her one flower
the fourth time you saw her, but it was her favorite flower in her favorite
color???
Here's another one...
In general, would a woman think you were more romantic if you: 1) Took
her to a fancy dinner every time you saw her, or 2) Didn't take her to dinner,
but one night cooked her a favorite dish that mom taught you and told her the
story of how it came to be a family favorite?
Do you see where I'm going with these examples?
"Romance" is all about the context of the situation. In other words, little
things that are thoughtful, used once in awhile will be FAR more of an impact
than trying to do everything you possibly can all the time.