I think that humans have a peculiar quirk: Once a person gets what they
want, they stop wanting it. Another variation: Once a woman knows that you
are really into her, she stops being as interested in you.
When you take a woman to expensive dinners and on fancy dates, you've let
the cat out of the bag. She has nothing to wonder. You've taken all the fun out
of the game.
This is why YOU SHOULD NEVER, EVER, ASK ―Do you like me?‖ or ―Am I your
type?‖ or any other insecure question that women see as PATHETIC
NEEDINESS and a huge turn-off. The exact same effect you create by
overusing romance.
The Right Conflict Can Create Attraction
Women LIKE Drama, It Keeps Them Attracted
―Nice‖ guys avoid drama because they‘re afraid a woman will leave...
But in fact, if a woman is prone to drama once in awhile, you should
actually look for opportunities to use what she does to create a little drama
yourself... If she‘s distracted trying to get your approval, she won‘t have time
to create drama for you.
In fact, A WOMAN DOESN‘T EVEN HAVE TO LIKE YOU TO FEEL ATTRACTED
TO YOU. Women sometimes feel a ̳strange attraction‘ to guys that kind of
annoy them, even guys that upset them a little. Only the really freaky girls
feel attraction for the guys that actually make them angry, so be careful with
this idea...
But the point is that the nice guy‘s goal of ̳being liked‘ is so far from ̳being
attractive‘ that sometimes ̳being disliked‘ gets closer to it!
Turn Regular Conversation Into Flirtation
Because average guys are scared of drama and confrontation, all their
conversations with women that they‘re attracted to are safe, agreeable, and
BORING!
Conversation is another way that being willing to risk conflict sets apart
Real Men from Wusses: Real men aren‘t scared of flirting with a girl or teasing
her.
So heat up normal conversation into exciting edginess:
In Polite Conversation You: In Attractive Conversation You: