Boring Men Aren‘t Attractive
Here are some examples of problems that result from boring a woman:
"I just want a girl who will like me for who I am, and I was a perfect
gentleman on our date but she didn't call me back and now I can't
reach her..." "I give her everything she wants, take her out, buy her things, and I
don't understand why she doesn't feel the same way towards me that
I feel towards her..." "She tells me that she only likes me as a friend, then she goes out
with these guys who treat her like crap instead of going out with a guy
like me that would treat her wonderfully and give her everything she
wants..."The list goes on and on, and the common denominator is:
YOU'RE NOT BEHAVING IN A WAY THAT IS PUSHING HER ATTRACTION
BUTTONS. IN MOST OF THESE CASES, YOU'RE TRYING TO BORE HER INTO
FEELING ATTRACTED TO YOU.
Why Wusses Bore Women
I‘ve mentioned that there‘s an area of the human brain called "Broca's
Region" that is constantly anticipating what‘s about to happen and telling the
rest of the brain to pay less attention to what‘s predictable. In other words,
the more predictable your words are, the faster your conversation will be
considered BORING.
To get yourself pumped up to talking to her, try walking in her shoes first.
I'd like you to think about the last time you saw a really attractive woman
and wanted to go over and talk to her, but for whatever reason you just didn't
do it. I'm talking about a REALLY hot one. Take all the time you need. I'm not
going anywhere.
Good. Now, let me ask you something:
Did you ever stop after one of these situations to think about what the
rest of her day was like after she walked by you? She probably had about ten
or twenty other men who saw her that day but didn't have the nerve to talk
with her... and maybe there were two or three who actually did.