If you act too cocky, you'll only come off as arrogant and insecure.
If you're just funny, always telling jokes, and making people laugh, you
will probably come across as "too goofy".
Cocky Comedy is like sparring... it's sport... it's fun... it's challenging...
it's interesting when used with skill.
How to Create Cocky Comedy
The Formula? Just think of an arrogant comment, then make it funny.
For example, let‘s say you‘re meeting for tea and the color of something
she‘s wearing clashes with the rest of her outfit. The arrogant comment is that
she doesn‘t know how to dress stylishly. The funny version would be: ―I like
the look you‘re going for except... well... the color combinations... I guess my
grandmother might have liked them.‖
Cocky Comedy is about being a little too confident while at the same time
making people laugh. I'm not suggesting arrogance as a way to attract
women... what I'm saying is that it's very attractive to be cocky and funny at
the same time. For instance: It's not cool to say "that guy over there is
ugly"... but it might be cool to say "that guy over there looks like he fell off the
ugly tree, hit every branch on the way down, then gnawed on the root..."
See the difference?
Women can detect when you‘re being an ―attractive ball buster‖ as
opposed to being an insecure, abusive loser, and it‘s important to realize the
difference.
You want to hear/see the pinnacle of cocky comedy: The nervous laughter
of ―Is he serious?‖ combined with ―Cummon, be serious‖ of her really wanting
to know.
Think of busting her balls like sparring... like ―play fighting‖. She wants to
do it. But when you‘re a kid, you don‘t say to your friends, ―Hey, let‘s PLAY
wrestle‖. That would be stupid! You say ―Let‘s wrestle!‖ and you actually kind
of mean it!
And even though you don‘t say it explicitly, what you both know is that
you‘re not REALLY going to wrestle... you‘re going to play. Women know when
you‘re sparring, when you‘re busting their balls as a cocky/funny guy... and
when you‘re being serious and mean. And you know what? Sometimes, even
when you‘re play wrestling, you get a little hurt. So don‘t worry about it. Just
keep your intentions good. And don‘t let things escalate!
And remember, if you embody the qualities that are naturally attractive to
women, then THE CONTENT DOESN'T MATTER. You can talk about anything,