Here's an example of some of one of my favorite topics to "riff on" when
flirting... the topic of getting married and our being in a relationship... and I'll
give it to you in the form of a sample dialogue. Keep in mind, I might have
had a conversation like this one with a woman that I‘d just met for five
minutes...
―You‘re in real estate? Excellent... There‘s a lot of money in that, and I need a
girl who makes enough to support me.‖
―Support you? Come on!‖
―Definitely. We could get married, and I would the ̳house husband‘. And
you could bring home the bacon.‖
―Are you kidding me? I wouldn‘t support you!‖
―Fine. Then it‘s over. I‘m going to have no choice now but to ask for a
divorce.‖
...Do you get what's going on here?
I was basically taking a normal conversation topic (her job and income)
and redirecting the conversation in a flirtatious way to create a fun mood and
sexual tension (by suggesting marriage, divorce, and breaking up over her not
supporting me, etc.).
Practicing
Here‘s another example. Let‘s say I was out at a restaurant, and the
waitress made a verbal slip and then corrected herself. I would say to her,
―How are you and I supposed to have a relationship without honesty?‖
If the above example doesn't make any sense to you, then take that as a
sign that you need to get out and practice more. Try it on a waitress or two.
In fact, you can say this in just about ANY situation with ANY woman where
she's saying something that you don't like, and it's funny.
When you communicate like this, you're FLIRTING, you're TEASING, and
you're initiating a DIFFERENT KIND OF COMMUNICATION than most men
initiate.
And as soon as the woman you're talking to "engages" you in this kind of
dialogue, THE GAME IS ON.
FIVE WAYS TO SPARK THE CHEMISTRY BY FLIRTING
- Giving her a hard time about something in a flirty way, in person,
when responding to her personal ad, etc.