- Mentioning how the relationship just doesn‘t seem to be working.
- Overly dramatic complaints about her job performance, behavior,
difficultness, etc. - Behaving like you could take her or leave her... and like she‘s just a
good friend (too comfortable)... unlike all the other men who
communicate that they‘re awed and in wussville because they‘re
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From The Mailbag
David,
I recently just bought your ebook. I am an
entrepreneur and took the day off to study your book(s). I
was laughing in amazement through the entire book. Before I
had bought your book, i had taken my sister out to dinner
to interview her about some of your ideas (from the
newsletter) and to also get insight into women "players". I
used her ideas and yours to approach and get, two numbers
from two attractive women. Thank you!
On to my question, I had set up a date with my younger
sisters friend that we hadn't talked to in 10+ years. After
contacting her, she was very flirtatious and sent some
semi-sexy pics on line. She lived in [another state]. So
when I flew in for business, I had set up a night for us to
go out. So when we met, I was kind of weird (the last time
i had seen her was when she was 11 yrs old). I started
teasing her and she looked at me like "What the hell did
you just say?". So I kept on teasing and kept getting those
looks (like she was confused and shocked and did NOT like
it). She didn't respond to the teasing very well, like I
had anticipated. So it was an weird situation. I wanted to
know is there any kind of a "back up" plan if the teasing
doesn't work? Also does this work in certain parts of the
country and not others? This girl was from the east coast
and east coast girls are a little more uptight than
southern girls.
I also wanted to Thank you because I have been in
relationships all my life as the "Regular-Successful Guy"