Where, oh where is a man that can make me feel that way again? And
would it even be the same? I fear not. I just can‘t help but think of him over
and over.
I wish so badly that I could just forget him and be happy with one of these
nice guys that I keep meeting. It would make Mom so happy... but they just
don‘t get it. What‘s a girl to do?‖
Meeting Women Isn‘t Magic
To most men who have never experienced it, success with women is
unexplainable—it basically looks like magic.
And unfortunately, many men will excuse themselves from success by
saying, ―I‘m not rich or famous... I‘m not tall or handsome. I don‘t have a
chance to be successful like those other guys.‖ This, of course, puts the idea of
success into the mental realm of impossibility.
When a person believes that something isn‘t possible, it sets up quite an
obstacle. Many experts thought that it was physically impossible for a man to
run a mile in under four minutes. Many even thought that it would cause
instant death from over-exertion. Then, of course, Roger Bannister ran a mile
in under four minutes. In the next year, TWELVE more people broke the four-
minute barrier.
When I started my personal journey to learn how to be more successful
with women and dating, I didn‘t know what was possible. I doubted that an
―average looking‖ guy like myself could have much success. How wrong I was.
In the process of learning, I saw guys do things that I would have said
were totally impossible. I watched one guy get 25 phone numbers in one
weekend from different women. I watched a guy walk into a topless dance
club and take home a dancer that he‘d just met. I met a guy that meets
almost all of his dates on the Internet... and I met even met one of his dates in
person (she was VERY hot). I met guys that were short, guys that were
overweight, guys that were older, and guys that were bald who had
extraordinary success with women.
I saw things that are even more incredible than these examples that I‘ve
described, but I fear that if I mention them here they won‘t sound believable.
In other words, I basically saw it all. I learned that it IS possible to be
successful with women, no matter what your perceived limitation or
disadvantage is.
I now believe that any man can learn how to attract women, if he is willing
to learn how and do what it takes. Unless you are unconscious (or have really
bad breath combined with absolutely no social skills), then you can do it.