Attraction Isn't A Choice

(Kiana) #1
and "I was teasing." This says, in effect "I'm having
fun, and I'm going to keep on with it, even if I have
to explain it to you every time."

If a woman gets uptight when you first tease her,
accuse her of being no fun, and a cold fish.

I'm serious about this one.

Let's say you make a funny joke about her, and she
gives you that "I don't like that you made fun of me"
look. You now have about two different basic choices.
You can 1) Back down and do the "Oh, I'm sorry... I
didn't mean to upset you" thing, or 2) You can say,
“What, you don't have a sense of humor?" or "Are you
trying to tell me that you can't take a little joke?"
I do it this way because I want to find out as SOON
AS POSSIBLE if I'm dealing with someone who is just
plain no fun at all.

The fact is that there are a lot of women (and men
too) who are just plain boring to be around.

They're too uptight, and they just don't get it.

And yes, even some beautiful women fall into this
category. You'd be better off calling it a night
early on if you discover that the woman you're in
front of fits into this category... No amount of
beauty can make up for a boring personality.


  1. Pay attention, because if a woman is sending you
    semi-nude pictures online, etc. you might just want
    to skip the small talk and say "hey, I have an idea-
    why don't we go back to my hotel room so I can show
    you my new stamp collection." If a woman is
    telegraphing "I'm ready, take me" then you probably
    just want to bypass the formalities and move on to
    more, shall we say, physical expressions of your
    teasing personality.

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