and this is the first time for me to be out dating and
picking up girls on the single scene. The look(s) are a
great guide and insight to women and secrets to what women
want. I have read portions of your book to several women
and they agreed with 95% of what you said. So, THANK YOU! I
have only had your book for 7 days and been reading some of
your newsletters for about 21 days and already SUCCESS!!
Thank you.
D.
P.S. the book is worth every penny!!
MY COMMENTS: First of all, thank you for the compliments. I
really enjoy hearing success stories from guys who jump in,
use the materials, and make them work. Hats off to you. The
reason I chose this question is it give me an opportunity
to point out a useful distinction to keep in mind about
teasing women.
As you know, I think that it's a great idea to tease
women. It shows them that you're not afraid of them, and it
levels the playing field very quickly. It also suggests
that you have the kind of relationship that makes it OK to
tease her. A great thing all the way around. But like every
idea or technique, there are a few exceptions and things to
keep in mind... Here are a couple of semi-common situations
that you need to keep your eye out for, and what to do
about them:
- Watch for women who don't have very sharp senses of
humor. Every once in awhile, you'll run across a
woman who just doesn't get it. Sarcasm just plain
doesn't make sense to some people (I know... how is
this possible, right?... lol). Some women will take
everything you say literally... it's almost like
they're humor-impaired. My favorite way to deal with
the Humor Impaired is to wait for those moments when
they say "that was rude" or they look at you with
that confused look that people who don't get funny
comments get... you know the one where they're trying
to smile like they think it's funny, but you know
they just don't get it?... and they say "It was a
joke" or "I'm teasing you." I know, kind of lame,
huh? But sometimes you just have to spell it out.
Just keep teasing, and keep on saying "It was a joke"