If you see someone doing well, don‘t let your desire for infinite justice
waste energy by putting them down. Instead, get inspired and use that energy
to do better for yourself.
Fear And The Kiss Test
―How can I move into the kiss test smoothly without looking like a perv?‖
This question contains a horrendous limiting belief: "Women perceive men who
move to kiss them as perverts." As long as you have the idea that women
think
of a man kissing them as "perverted", you're going to have a lot of trouble.
As a matter of fact, my experience is that if you DON'T kiss a girl, she'll see
you as a WUSS. And that's definitely not what you want. Women are
desperate for the passionate kiss, and the kiss test is a very non-invasive way
to check whether this particular woman wants that passion from you yet.
The beauty of the kiss test is that it gives her an easy way to let you know
where she‘s at without either of you saying a word and without any awkward
acknowledgement of what‘s going on. So get over your idea that women will
think of you as a "perv‖ and just do it. If she's out with you, then just do The
Kiss Test. Do it.
The Sex Obligation
Once they‘ve had sex with a woman, a lot of guys feel a series of
obligations to her, e.g. continuing to talk to, see, date and develop a serious
relationship with her.
This happens unconsciously, and it‘s another socially programmed belief
system. But if you‘re not looking for marriage or a life-partner just yet, it‘s a
negative and unnecessary one.
Engaging in this sort of obliged thinking and behavior is only going to make
her feel and act the same way.
You need to be totally able to enjoy a moment with a woman, be physical,
whatever, without further expectation, and then be okay with expecting her to
be able to just enjoy a moment as well.