It‘s amazing how something very powerful can remain unnoticed because it
happens completely unconsciously.
I‘m in an unusual situation when trying to teach these hidden languages.
It‘s very hard to convince someone of the existence of something they‘ve
never seen... and ESPECIALLY when it‘s something that works on an
UNCONSCIOUS instead of a conscious level.
Some who have never noticed subtle body language will see discussion of it
almost like talking about voodoo. For them, it has never existed so they have
a mental block accepting the fact that it could exist.
No one is born knowing why the sky is blue, and when they learn the
reason, they think that it‘s an interesting fact and may tell their friends. Body
language, on the other hand, is something that SOME men just learn about
subconsciously at an early age, so it never occurs to them that it‘s something
worth telling anyone else about and think ―everyone must know this stuff
already‖.
Those men who don‘t initially know about it, but do come to learn about it
later also realize its power: if you know what‘s being said with body language
and the guy next to you doesn‘t, you‘ve got an advantage over him. There‘s a
strong motive for someone not to tell anyone else, because they‘d be giving
up some of their power if they did. So body language is kept secret from those
who don‘t already know. The men who know reap the rewards, and those who
don‘t, never will.
I was once one who didn‘t know. Then I decided to do whatever it took to
get a handle on my dating life, and this concept is one of the things I learned
through years of intensive study.
So, while it may be difficult for you to imagine that some of the hidden
languages we‘re going to discuss in this chapter really exist, keep in mind that
there are good reasons they‘ve been kept hidden from you. Remember that if
you really want to improve your chances with women, you need to be ready to
change and be willing to accept new ideas.
The Universal Language
Have you ever watched National Geographic or the Discovery Channel? It
always amazes me how supposedly ―dumb‖ animals seem to be amazing at
communicating with each other.
A bee can do a special dance in complete darkness and communicate the
exact distance, direction, and location of food to others in the hive. An alpha
male in a wolf pack uses certain cues to maintain his leadership position,
causing other wolves to respond instantly by displaying more submissive
behaviors.