It doesn‘t really matter whether or not you do both know what‘s going on.
As long as a woman can pretend to herself that it‘s all happening magically,
she‘s very happy to have found the man that can make it happen.
Band The Tension and Energy of Two Magnets Wrapped by a Rubber
Band
Remember science class where you learned about magnetism?
Remember how much more fun it was to play with the magnets arranged
so that they would repel each other and you had to force them to sit next to
each other, than it was to play with them when they were arranged so that
they‘d just snap together?
Imagine taking two magnets with the same polarities aligned so that
they‘re pushing away from each other and then wrapping them in a rubber
band so that they can‘t get away from each other.
On the one hand there‘s the constant force of the poles pushing them
apart, and on the other there‘s the constant force of the band pulling them
together.
There‘s a lot of energy in that image.
This is the kind of electric energy you want to create with a woman
through Cocky Comedy.
Women are constantly reading hidden subtexts into communication and are
searching for a man who ―Gets It‖ and sends the right signals back. The ball-
busting put-downs may push her away a little, but the fun and suggestion of
strength lying behind the verbal sparring will keep pulling her towards you.
When you‘ve mastered generating this sort of energy you‘ll create a sense
of attraction far, far, stronger than reason.
The Secret Language of Sex
Despite the loosening of taboos since the 1950s, sex remains a taboo
conversation subject. We don‘t talk about it in front of children, yet it‘s the
main topic for stand-up comedy. For average guys, it‘s also an uncomfortable
topic to discuss with women.
The truth about this last point is that there‘s hidden communication
involved in discussing sex with women. Nervousness or reluctance to discuss
sex with a woman does not come across as gentlemanly or sensitive.