Attraction Isn't A Choice

himself if others don‘t like him. He doesn‘t care. He is the leader in his own
life.

Now that you know why we conform and what you‘ve got to gain by not
being a slave to it, you can be yourself and earn the respect you hoped to earn
by conforming just by being yourself...

The Hidden Language of Self-Confidence............................................

Just as being ―Cocky & Funny‖ communicates that you value yourself at
least as much you value a woman, not conforming reveals that you value
yourself at least as much as you value society.

There are lots of ways to challenge others‘ assumptions and show your
self-confidence in every communication you make. All the forms of flirting
we‘ve already discussed do this, but there are other forms of non-standard
communication that don‘t aim directly at assumptions about the two of you but
still challenge normal expectations:

 Dry humor

 Unflappability

 Indifference

 Seriousness

 Mystery

 Tension

 Challenge

 Total confidence & comfort

When you intentionally use these things and don‘t avoid them because
you‘re afraid a woman won‘t like you, you use that ―hidden language‖ to
communicate something even MORE powerful... that YOU are the man. You‘re
in control. You get it.