I Can Read You Like a Book : How to Spot the Messages and Emotions People Are Really Sending With Their Body Language

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R Review From Scalp to Soles 67


  1. Discussion of how clothes, accessories, body art, and
    gadgets play a role in your review process. The
    review is a scan that gives you the puzzle pieces that
    later will come together in a picture.
    This is nothing more than a laundry list to make you aware and
    open your eyes to some basic concepts. You will never look at
    yourself or anyone else the same way. I will later address the holistic
    view, and give you ways to tie it all together so you can read body
    language.


Super–physical communication


All humans share some communication traits, regardless of
culture gender or language. I explore these later in depth, but for
now, I want to expose you to essential concepts so the detailed list
of body movements in this chapter gets you thinking about how
individual gestures might fit into a meaningful, complete picture.


ƒ Illustrators: Gestures used to punctuate a statement.
Examples are finger pointing; head bobbing; batoning
with the hand, arm, or head; and arm outstretched
with the palm up, as if to suggest you are giving
something.
ƒ Regulators:Gestures used to control another
person’s speech. Examples are putting a hand up like
a stop sign; putting a finger to the lips to ask for
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