for my soulmate”? Have you ever noticed how almost NO
men ever say these things?
What’s going on?
Have you ever listened to a group of women talking
about men? Ever notice how they speak largely in some
kind of code language and constantly make a big deal out
of tiny details that seem totally irrelevant?
Have you ever noticed, on the other hand, how men
are direct with each other and have no interest in
bickering over small things?
What’s going on?
Have you ever noticed how many women are
attracted to drama?
Here’s my take on this whole subject: Women are
playing out a role that hasn’t changed for thousands (or
millions?) of years. These days the language and clothing
are different. But it’s the same that it’s always been.
There are many parts of human brains that create
drives and desires for different things. Often, these drives
conflict with each other.
For instance, a woman might want a strong man in
her life, but she might also want a feeling of
independence. She might want to have attention, but she
might also want to be seen as above needing it. (Men
have these types of conflicts as well, but in different
areas.)
So, for example, I hear a lot of men saying things like,
“I hate all the drama that women create. Why do they
create this stuff?”