Also, some women really get intrigued if you ‘figure
them out’ early on in the game and have their number...
and then just ‘laugh at how cute they are’ when they do
things. This gets them all freaked out, as they feel like
you’re in control, and they don’t know what to do next...
like you know all the games they’re playing and won’t fall
for any of their old tricks... this makes them nervous as
they don’t have any POWER OR AMMO!
They love this, as men are hardly ever in control. And
they secretly want someone who is. (It’s VERY important
not to become the ‘friend/therapist’ with this
information... and start kissing their ass! The idea is to
use it to bust on them and not to be understanding.)
I’d also tell women early on that I think they’d make a
nice ‘friend’.
It’s funny to see how the friendship frame works with
them, because this gets them thinking often for the first
time, “Wow, maybe I just found a man who is smarter
than me, knows my little games, and has higher
standards than ME for once... and now he’s talking about
being ‘just friends’! Oh no! Doesn’t he like me? Doesn’t he
want me like all the other guys?” A key here is to always
keep them guessing... never get too into them or they’ll
get right into their old games, etc.
Another interesting observation that I’ve made is that
women only understand CODE, not direct language.
Little boys tease little girls when they’re 8, and
women still love it when they’re 28 and 48. I like to find
something about them that they’re just a little insecure
about and make fun of it in a way makes them wonder
whether or not I’m serious.
The way I see it, women are like the Enigma machines
that German U-boats used in World War II. These
machines were able to transmit messages to each other,