Body Language Secrets A Guide During Courtship & Dating

(^68) BODY LANGUAGE SECRETS
A few weeks later, I remembered my impressions
of "bad vibrations" in the parking lot. I threw it in
Mark's face. Although he ridiculed "that psychologi-
cal gibberish," I forever lost all doubt that no matter
what, you cannot not communicate, even at 50
yards!
The next chapter, On Shaking Hands, explains
why the handshake is the quickest, most reliable
method to discover who's who. Shake with everyone.
It gives you the advantage.
The first attraction was purely physical.
ROD STEWART
Touch me, feel me,
THE WHO, 1979
On Shaking Hands
The touching that takes place when shaking
hands enables your emotions and subconscious to
make lightning fast value judgements. The power of
touch bypasses the logical, rational brain and be-
comes hard evidence.
Massive amounts of genuine data are exchanged
as the two of you touch in this socially acceptable
manner. What you both learn is gut knowledge—re-
liable and accurate as to who the other person really
is.
WOMEN FIRST
Women, remember, you have a tremendous ad-
vantage during this data exchange—your intuition.
Trust it! Use it!
By touching, you are able to fill your brain with
authentic, trustworthy information as to what he's
all about. And, you are able to send him just about
any nonverbal message you want. That's how pow-
erful a woman can be if she chooses to use her
natural abilities.
If the man does not offer his hand, extend yours.
Keep your palm perpendicular to the floor, not