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Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit http://www.datingdynamics.com for more information.The first place to start is understanding her anatomy. You need to know where her
clitoris is, as well as where her g-spot is located. The secret to giving her mind-blowing orgasms
is to stimulate her consistently at both points, which means using your tongue externally, as
your fingers work inside her to stimulate the g-spot. Use the recommendations I stated before
on tempo as you go, and she’ll have a convulsive moment that might throw you off the bed with
its intensity. (And you’ll probably be a bit jealous, too.)
For when you stimulate her externally only, use your tongue in slow circles about her
clitoris for maximum effect. Do not use your teeth, and beware using any fingers that have not
been properly lubricated – by her or artificially.
Anal Stimulation/Anal Sex
Hey, some guys love the old dirt road. There are some things to be aware of when you
stimulate a woman here:
- It’s always painful until she relaxes, so go VERY slowly. Start with a small finger and
go from there. - Always use some kind of lubrication. Always.
- Never use the same finger, toy, whatever, on both her butt and the vagina. This is
exceptionally bad hygiene that will likely give her a UTI (Urinary tract infection.) Not
pretty or fun, and you don’t want her cursing your name every time she has to
scream when peeing. Be clean. - Always ask before you explore. You can do this in a very gentle way, such as putting
your finger close by and asking "Do you mind, or do you prefer not?"
A lot of women like stimulation in the posterior, and they are also torn, believing the
stigma that anal stimulation or sex is filthy and degenerate. (There are still laws on the books of
many states against Sodomy.) If this is your taste and not hers, respect her wishes and stay
away. You’ll find that if you do well in pleasing her in other areas, she may get curious later on.
Dirty Talk
Women will talk dirty with you, but it’s not usually until after they’ve established a large
Trust account in your name. Her first interest will be on hearing some love talk, and you’ll have
to come up with some if you want to get to a point where she grabs you by the hair and tells
you: “Just &#$! me!” Don’t start talking dirty to her until she’s started, as you will definitely risk
having her feel degraded and humiliated. She’s not your personal porn movie or fantasy. She
wants to be respected first, then she’ll get playful.
Blow Jobs
Yeah, I figured I’d have to cover this topic. What is there to say, other than almost every
man likes getting head. It’s probably the one sex act that has reached almost legendary renown,
especially since our President Bill sent Monica bobbing for apples. Here are some of the rules of
getting the oral sex you want:
- Don’t shove her face down there on the first time you sleep with her. This goes back
to the trust and respect thing. She wants to be appreciated and respected, not
shoved into a smelly patch of pubic hair. - Don’t push her deeper than she willingly takes you. If you gag her (if you can gag
her, big boy), she’ll be pissed, and rightfully so.