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Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit http://www.datingdynamics.com for more information.- Don’t answer your phone when she’s over at your house. If she asks you why you’re
not going to get it, you say, “That’s why I got an answering machine,” or, “It couldn’t
be anyone more important than you right now.” Whatever the answer, don’t act at all
guilty, like you think it’s another Playboy bunny calling to check up on you. Women
care less about your excuse and more about how confidently you explain yourself - Turn the answering machine down low. One of these days, a woman will call you
while you have another one at your home. You don’t want your date hearing, “Hi,
Dave! I had a great time last night. I can’t believe how sore I am! Give me a call so I
can find out when I’ll get another workout like that one...” - Have the raw ingredients for breakfast on hand. One way to get her to come back for
more is to give her a good breakfast before she goes. - This one is important: You have to have some valid reason to have her back at your
house besides getting her into bed. Some good “reasons” are:
o A good bottle of wine to share
o A movie on your ‘home theater’
o Some photographs from a trip overseas
o A dog or cat she’d just “love to meet”
o A musical instrument to play for her
o Some special music to play for her
The important thing is to not get her back to your house (when she really does want
to be there) and then make it very uncomfortable for her to be there when the
atmosphere is noticeably arranged around her going to bed with you. She may
desire this, but you should keep this agenda out of her sight. Remember: She wants
romance, not porn.
DETAIL ORIENTATION.................................................................................................................................
Something men are not renowned for is their attention to details with women. You must
learn to pay attention to detail – which means attending to your appearance. The primary
reason for this is that women translate what they see of your actions (and your appearance) into
their belief about your sexual ability. In other words, if you are a sloppy person, messy car (no
matter how expensive), messy house, you will be thought of as unable to pay attention to the
details of your life, and your ability to satisfy her needs will be cast into doubt. After all, how can
a man who is unable to match his sock colors possibly be attentive enough to give her the kind
of thoughtful sensual attention she requires? She sees a sloppy man and thinks, hmm, sloppy
lover. When a man appears in control of his own life, and is able to project his attention to detail
in the way he organizes it, a woman is reassured that she will get the kind of satisfaction she
wants.
Don’t underestimate the value of this knowledge!