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Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit http://www.datingdynamics.com for more information.Most often, they’ll ask whose it is if they’re interested in you. Other props include interesting
jewelry, or a cowboy hat. A cleverly added affectation.
Show a Skill or Talent: Magic is an excellent flirting tool. If you know a couple of good
card tricks, you will get her curiosity going, not to mention demonstrate your mystery and self-
confidence. Another skill to use to flirt is a musical instrument. Women are very attracted to
music, as well as musicians. Take it from me, having played guitar for over fourteen years –
nothing is as seductive as playing a song for a woman. Other skills are things like juggling, or
origami.
Take a Survey: This one is not for the faint of heart, but if you get a head of steam on
you and decide you want to be really bold, make up a dating survey for women. Go outside and
target a few ladies and tell them you’re not selling them anything, you just want a few seconds
to ask some questions about dating. (What woman could refuse?) When you’re done, ask for
their email and phone number in case you want to “follow up with them.” Make it obvious that
this follow-up could be more, but you’re not telling. This takes balls, but you’ll get great results
when you get going.
There are more methods of flirting and getting exposed to women than I can give you
here. The point is to find something in your comfort zone, and use it. Then move outside your
comfort zone and do more. If you put a little thinking behind it, you can come up with ideas of
your own like the survey above.
One rule of thumb: Always quit flirting while it’s still fun. If you flirt too far, you’ll lose
the positive buzz you get when you just keep it fun. This reinforces it to your nervous system as
a good experience, nullifies any fear, and ensures that you’ll come back and do more. If you
start flirting with women only to get phone numbers, you’ll start to look at flirting as a drag if you
don’t get the rewards you hope for. When you stop flirting, you severely damage your attraction
ability with women.