The Art of Approaching

(Rick Simeone) #1

Can you imagine the possibilities?


If you still don’t believe the power of tonality, think of how women use it on men. In
fact, men are SUCKERS for tonality! All a woman has to do is purr in your ear a bit and
you may become putty in her hands (if that’s the case, I recommend popping some
Viagra!).


Most women know how to use their tonality to get men to do what they want. Well, the
same is true for guys. The only thing is, most guys don’t know how to use their tonality
effectively!


So what’s the most effective way to use your tonality?


The first thing you need to be conscious of is the tone of your voice, or how much it
resonates.


Women respond well to men with deep tonality, not only because the pitch is pleasing to
their ears, but because a deep tone represents confidence.


Now some of you out there might be like me and aren’t blessed with a “deep voice.” So
I’m going to make the distinction here between a “deep voice” and a “deep tonality.”


First, I want you to remember this: You can be just as sexy with a deep tonality as you
can with a deep voice!


The difference between the two is that no matter what your voice sounds like, if you can
make it resonate, it will have the same effect as a sexy deep voice!


Even if your voice is so high it sounds like your testicles have been squeezed by a vice
for the past 20 years, if you can make your voice resonate, you can use it to your
advantage.


In order to achieve this type of tonality, you must speak from your diaphragm.


A test to see if you are speaking from your diaphragm is to place your hand flat on your
chest, and focus speaking from that area. If you do it right, you can actually feel your
chest vibrate as the words emanate from there.


Another thing to be aware of is volume.


In a way, you must learn to be LOUD.


If you have great things to talk about, but a girl cannot hear you, he’s going to get
frustrated and bored and eventually be distracted by something that does not require so
much effort on their part to pay attention to.


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