Confidence And The Willingness To Work
We’ve already covered confidence in detail, but to reiterate, you need to have the courage
to meet new people if you want a healthy social life. More importantly, you have to be
able and willing to do the work necessary to incorporate yourself into someone else’s life.
This means calling people up, meeting up with others, and going to events when invited.
It means being able to chat with strangers at a party, being able to speak up in a group,
being able to face rejection and awkward moments.
Laziness is death to a good social life. It’s easy to be lazy. Nothing good ever happens
without hard work. You have to be willing to keep in touch with others, via phone, email,
text messaging, whatever! Otherwise, you’ll fall by the wayside.
The fact is: you don’t need to be incredibly skilled in social interactions to make
friends in this world. But the better your social skills are to begin with, the easier this
will all be. More people will like you and they’ll be much more likely to want to hang out
with you. Just making an effort to be friendly will usually be enough.
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